See also

Drinking from my saucer

Be Thankful

The Will of God

My favorite Yancey's book on this subject, "Prayer: Does It Make Any Difference?"

I asked God for strength, that I might achieve,
I was made weak, that I might learn humbly to obey.

I asked for health, that I might do great things,
I was given infirmity, that I might do better things.

I asked for riches, that I might be happy,
I was given poverty, that I might be wise.

I asked for power, that I might have the praise of men,
I was given weakness, that I might feel the need of God.

I asked for all things, that I might enjoy life,
I was given life, that I might enjoy all things.

I got nothing that I asked for
but everything I had hoped for.

Almost despite myself,
my unspoken prayers were answered.
I am, among all men,
most richly blessed.